A plea for the good guys

What would you do if a guy came up to you very politely and begged you to do something about your dress because it was distracting him and he’s been struggling to concentrate?

Minalisa
3 min readDec 14, 2021
Photo by Magnet. me on Unsplash

Your freedom to wear whatever you want shouldn’t infringe on his freedom of sight.

What would you do if a guy came up to you and said in a very polite way that your clothes were distracting? He’s been trying so hard to concentrate, but he just can’t?

I got out of my room and was about to run out, but then I realized something was wrong. Everyone was staring at me. What? I asked. What on earth are you wearing? Was my brother’s reply. A dress?! Why would you wear a clothing like that to church? What exactly is your plan?

Okay, I have no idea what you’re talking about. It’s a pretty dress, and I like it, so I’m wearing it. “So what are the guys at church supposed to do about that? Deal with it?” Yeah, duh.

This time it was mum that replied. Don’t you feel sorry for them? Imagine a guy who managed to drag himself to church on a Sunday morning and trying to concentrate on the teaching and then there you are, a complete distraction and so at the end of the day, he goes home with just you in his head, because he just…

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Minalisa

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